Wednesday, November 16, 2011
Achieving Happiness in Your Garden: The Thirteenth Secret
Just imagine if those old tools could tell us about who used them, about the gardens they helped create, about that one winter they were left outside to fend for themselves.
Oh, the adventures, the secrets those old gardening tools have locked up inside of them. What if they could tell us those secrets? What if the handle of one was hollow and inside was a little scroll of paper containing a secret?
The tool on the left does indeed have a hollow handle and I suggested a few posts ago it might be holding a secret in there, scrawled on an old piece of paper, long forgotten.
Remember the first five secrets for achieving happiness in your garden?
Grow the plants you love, size the garden for the resources you have, buy good tools, respect Mother Nature, and share your garden were the first five secrets to achieving happiness in your garden.
Then there were five more secrets including plan your garden, feed your soil, strive for balance, ask for help, and change your garden if you don't like it.
And then there were two more secrets, try new plants, and plant for the future.
That made for even dozen, a good place to stop.
But there are always more secrets to discover, including this 13th secret.
Take a break from your garden.
Take a break from your garden when you are tired of tending it. Let it go for awhile. Stop obsessing over it. Ignore it. Get someone else to water it for a week or so, if need be, while you are on your break.
Of course, if you live where the snow flies, you naturally get this break once the snow does start to fly because there isn't much you can do in a frozen garden once it is frozen, especially if you prepared it for winter by stowing away the stuff that doesn't like snow and ice. Winter is a nice, natural break from the garden.
During the winter break, or any break, you can make new plans for the garden or even, gasp, do something other than gardening, which often leads to new ideas for the garden.
Winter or not, you should really consider a break from the garden anytime you are ready to throw in the trowel or are so frustrated that you want to get a roto-tiller and plow the whole garden up.
Don't do those things, instead take a break from the garden.
It's the 13th secret for achieving happiness in your garden.